A Joyful holiday message filled with light, warmth, and space to pause and breathe. Today is the 23rd of December. It is our last teaching day. We finish classes today. Live and Online Pilates classes are done. Pantomime is finished. The pace changes. Suddenly. And honestly, it feels welcome. Between now and January the 5th, the calendar opens up. Fewer alarms. Fewer deadlines. More quiet. In many countries, the world softens for a short while. Streets slow down. Expectations

Falling asleep mid chapter, fully dressed, body choosing rest before the mind finishes. Soulful Sunday usually gives us a pause before the week starts. This week feels different. Christmas sits right in front of us. For many, it means time off. For us, there are still two teaching days left. Monday online. Tuesday live. Then we stop. The body knows this. The mind argues anyway. Learning to rest without guilt sounds simple. It is not. Rest often feels earned only after exhaust

Crowded Christmas streets remind us why calm breath and movement matter before December chaos peaks. The noise is already there. Traffic builds early. Shops feel crowded before you reach the door. Everyone seems to move faster, talk louder, and forget how to breathe. This is usually the point where self-care gets postponed until January, which never works out well. Today does not need grand plans. It needs awareness. Move your body early if possible, even for a few minutes. A

Festive comfort invites stillness. Mobility keeps the body from stiffening during long evenings indoors Mobility has been on my mind this week. Not the dramatic kind. No deep stretches. No heroic routines. Just the quiet stuff we stop doing when the weather turns cold and the chairs get softer. Christmas week is strange for the body. You sit more. You eat more. You move less. Then you wonder why everything feels stiff, heavy, and uncooperative. It is not the food alone. It is

The quiet aftermath of celebration, where excess lingers and the body asks for gentler choices. We all know this morning. Heavy head. Sluggish body. That quiet moment where you replay the extra glass, the second dessert, the late night that felt festive at the time and less charming now. Your body is not cross with you. It is asking for a reset, not a punishment. The first thing to drop is guilt. Guilt stresses the nervous system. Stress slows recovery. Beating yourself up ne

Angry reaction to a cold call as a man grips his phone mid conversation indoors. Cold calls interrupt your day. You answer an unknown number and someone launches into a sales pitch while you are busy. The reaction is irritation, raised voice, and a demand to stop calling. Then the phone rings again. Solar panels. Again. This week I was speaking with a marketing specialist who said something uncomfortable. Cold calls still work. Not emotionally. Not politely. Financially. So h

Warm wool socks resting on cold stone flooring, highlighting contrast between comfort and winter chill. This weekend I am teaching in Italy. Beautiful place. Built for summer. In winter, it tells a different story. Many places close. Spaces empty. The hotel looks polished and light, but the first thing I noticed was the floor. Stone. Cold. No rugs. No carpet. Perfect in August. Brutal in December. Standing there first thing in the morning, cold came straight up through my fee

Pilates Fitness Friday, What You Wear When You Sweat Matters People think Pilates Fitness Friday is about exercises, but today it is about clothing. You move, you sweat, and your clothes sit against your skin for long periods. This matters more than people realise. Some leggings use treatments that aim to make the fabric sweat resistant or quick drying. These treatments often involve PFAS. PFAS are synthetic chemicals used in many industries. They do not break down fast in th

Soft morning light fills the room as you sit with coffee and steady thoughts. Most people move through the week on autopilot. They feel tired, distracted, or unfocused, then blame the usual suspects. Sometimes the problem sits somewhere else. An energy audit brings the focus back to what you do each day and how it affects you. You list the things that lift you. You list the things that drain you. You look at the patterns. You keep it simple. Morning coffee, a short walk, a qu

Quiet moment of reflection in the mirror to reset mindset before teaching. A single thought in the morning sets your direction. It shapes how you move, speak, and respond. It shapes how you teach. When you start your day with one clear positive idea, you give your mind a stable point. This helps you manage pressure, deal with uncertainty, and stay present with your clients. A positive morning thought does not fix everything in your life. It gives you a small reset. It creates

Calm seated twist highlighting focused breath work and easy embodied awareness on the mat. Embodiment is something teachers talk about often, yet it fades once you start teaching full schedules and taking on clients. When you are learning as a teacher you get plenty of natural practice. You move, you repeat, and you spend time in your own body. The shift happens later. Once clients fill your week your attention shifts to them and your own practice slips into the background. E

Warm root soup supports your energy and recovery through cold winter training. Winter pulls your energy in tight. Your body works harder to stay warm, so you need food that supports recovery and steady strength. A simple festive soup helps you stay hydrated, nourished, and ready for your Pilates work, without weighing you down. Here is a practical winter soup you can make in under an hour. It supports digestion, joint health, and muscle recovery. It also works well before or

Malcolm shows a strong lumbar flexion curve, holding steady control through the centre. Pilates Movement Monday looks at the Short Box Series, a clear way to strengthen your abdominals and sharpen your control through the centre. The work looks simple, but the challenge sits underneath. You train the deep muscles that support your spine while the larger global muscles learn to move in harmony without gripping or taking over. Breath links the whole thing together. Set the Refo

Hand squeezing a soft ball to build grip strength during controlled Pilates work. Grip strength gives clear information about overall strength and long term health. Several large studies show this. A 2015 Lancet study tracked more than 140000 adults and found lower grip strength linked with higher risk of death from any cause. A 2018 BMJ review showed the same pattern in middle aged and older adults. The UK Biobank followed more than 500000 adults and reported that lower grip

A champagne glass sits among festive decorations with warm, blurred Christmas lights behind. The holiday season brings parties, dinners and a steady flow of drinks. Your choices matter. They affect your energy, sleep and how you feel the next morning. Here is a simple guide to help you pick the healthiest options without killing the celebration. Champagne and Brut Prosecco Dry sparkling wines sit at the top of the healthier list. A standard glass of dry Champagne contains abo

A cracked laptop screen pierced by an arrow shows how harsh online comments strike. Social media hits hard. It lifts you, teaches you, and then someone you have never met fires off insults without signing their name. That is the part that gets to you. An opinion is fine. Hiding behind “anonymous” while throwing that opinion at people is weak. We have been planning this classical Pilates debate for a long time. Gill Cummings Bell and I wanted a real conversation. A space where

Pilates Movement Monday: Bicycle on the Shoulders The traditional Bicycle on the shoulders looks elegant until you try to keep everything lifted, steady, and calm. It challenges your strength through the centre and your control through the hips, and it becomes a lot more manageable when the breath leads the movement. You begin on your back and lift into a supported shoulder stand. Your hands support the pelvis so you stay high through the centre without dumping weight into th

Soft morning light falls on a quiet woman reflecting alone in her living room. Here is the thing most of us avoid admitting. We rush around as if being busy is some kind of badge. More classes, more projects, more travel, more everything.Then we wonder why we’re worn out and secretly craving five minutes of silence. So for today, let’s keep it simple and talk like real people, not teachers, not business owners, not planners of fourteen things at once. You know those people wh

Long walking stride by the lake showing greater hip extension that lengthens the psoas. How extending your walk and running will change your psoas use When you walk a bit longer or start adding short runs into your week, your psoas wakes up fast. It is one of those muscles that pretends to be quiet in class, then makes a scene the moment you take it outside. The change in demand is simple. Longer strides ask it to lengthen. Running asks it to lift. If your posture drifts, you

A person pauses with a warm mug, checking in with their thoughts in quiet stillness. Life feels full when you work alone. The list grows, the messages pile up, and the pressure to keep up with social media adds another layer of noise. This is why today needs a pause. Sit with a hot drink. Put everything down. Give yourself a few minutes without tasks or screens. Notice how you are feeling. You do not need to fix anything. You only observe what is going on in your body and you